might piss some people off. but just remember, everyone has their own views on every single thing in the world and 9 times outta 10 you can not change it.
Just read something on fetlife. it really made me say, out loud “Well thats what you get for fucking other people.” yeah it was mean and most likely needed to go un said. but i said it. i hate guys that are in a mono relationship for ever and then wanna go poly. it’s like, then just break up with her. and dont get me wrong women do it to. but this guy had been married to his wife for 10 years, mono with her the whole time, i’m guessing. i use to know this guy but with all the shit he’s been doing i really dont know. then he wanted a poly relationship, and then got a std right off the bat.
i kinda find it as a karma thing. if he would have been just with his wife, never would have gotten it.
being mono i don’t like the idea of poly at all. i dont even like the idea of threesomes. if you wanna fuck that girl over there, then obviously she’s got something you really want that i aint giving you, so go ahead, just know i aint gonna be here when you get back. even if you say it’s ok if i fuck that guy over there while ya do it it still aint fine with me. if i wanted that guy over there then i’d be in a relationship with him, not you.
from what I’ve seen and read and everything in the bdsm world, it you’re not poly then something is wrong with you. and that fucking sucks. i dont want a poly relationship because i just couldn’t handle the guy i’m with giving the love i should be getting to another girl. it just aint gonna happen with me.
I’ve even seen the guy i’m talking about post things like “i love my girlfriend” and i see that and i feel sorry for his wife. how does she feel seeing that shit? stuff like that should be saying “i love my wife”.
and this whole poly with a dont ask dont tell thing is even worse, you are giving him permission to cheat on you. you just dont want to know the details. AND espesialy if you dont know anything thats going on in the first place. then honey, he was CHEATING on you, there is no such thing as being secretly poly in a relationship. if you find out he has another girl, without you guys talking about it, and he’s like, oh i’m poly, now ya know, it’s just him being a fucking asshole.
it just pisses me off.
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